- Keep a book nearby in which you can write resonances, with what is happening within the room. This will help you process and remember, and will keep you connected to your own private creative self.
- Do things in the room which you are enthusiastic about and enthusiastic about sharing with the client.
- Learn selfishly: see what the child is doing and whilst you ‚Join‘, understand that you are getting something out of this — encourage that feeling, more than the need to perform ‚joining‘ or to get the immitation perfect. Although it may well help the relationship between you, find access to your genuine pleasure in Joining.
- The whole session is a workshop for both of you — each offering proposals — expect it to get weird and to have your own perceptions of play challenged.
- Do not be surprised if big emotions arise. You are shifting towards the Arachnean state where emotions are likely to flow.
April 10, 2025